Straight serviced by gay

Thanks in part to reading your column for many years, we were able to have a calm conversation about whether we wanted to remain together in a companionate marriage or split up.

We decided to stay together, and I’m glad we did. And I really appreciate your body.” Randy’s highly educated and very successful.

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Introduce them.

P.S.

He first stumbled over the FinDom scene on Twitter when he was a kinky gay college student struggling to pay his rent. After all, he wouldn’t come up to you and your gay boyfriend..

I often advise fags to make a set of business cards with their phone number and specific set of services they provide on it. (We had this conversation at the start of the pandemic, and playing online feels safer.)

One of things I’ve been able to explore in the last year is FinDom.

I’ve always really liked talking to other gay men—whether they are submissive and into FinDom or not or just intrigued by my profile.”

And if you really want to attract other gay men like him to the FinDom scene, CASHFAG, AJ suggests making an effort to find out gay FinDoms who are already online, diligently promoting their content with likes and retweets, and—of course—sending your favourite FinDom(s) all the money you can reasonably spare.

“Because when you think about it,” said AJ, “tributing to a gay FinDom is like supporting a small queer business, and that’s something we should all be doing.”

Follow MasterAJ on Twitter @CashMasterAJ1.

Many years ago, as an apprentice cocksucker, I hooked up with a guy whose online profile indicated that he was uncut.

He gets blacked out messy drunk frequently at the bars. I assume it’s best to just "butt out."

Oddly, I have another friend who is just like Randy. You’re trying to serve, not get fired.

3. “But other gay men prefer gay FinDoms because they don’t like hearing slurs from straight men,” said AJ.

Zooming out for a second…

While it may be the case that a small handful of gay FinDoms pretend to be straight to attract gay subs, CASHFAG, I think something else is going on here.

Thing is, almost all the guys doing FinDom are straight. Put a bold title on them like “Full-service for discerning straight alpha men”. Part of me wants to pull him aside and tell him he’s gay. Instead, when he’s ordering his drink(s), pay for his drink(s) and offer to cover his tab all night.

If he declines, leave him alone.