Best gay position

If you don't know what it is, "we're talking about giving oral sex to each other at the exact same time. Go slow and allow yourself to progress from there. But for many others, things are more fluid.

Maybe you’re a top who bottoms once a year, maybe you’re vers and split it 50/50 (or 70/30, or 60/40), or maybe you don’t care about labels.

pain, as does open and honest communication. Communicate with your partner and let them know how it feels. Wait a few minutes and then try again with these extra steps.

If the pain doesn’t go away after your partner pulls out, then stop what you’re doing. In other words, feeling comfortable and safe with a partner can help improve things.
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If the pain is short-lived (as in, it goes away after your partner pulls out) then it’s probably ok.

Not to mention, this will allow kissing and more body touching.

"Also you can change depth with missionary by just putting some pillows under whoever's on the bottom and really raising it which can really change the penetration level, amazingly."

Chris says it can be a little bit difficult for two people with penises if you aren't flexible.

This means it’s extra stimulating for both the top and the bottom.

PROS/CONS

Your maneuvers as the bottom are key here and should be gradual, until you’ve found the right position, and then you can be more aggressive.

It’s key to maintain slow thrusting in this position, otherwise the penis can break if not careful.

This can be uncomfortable for the top because of limitations of the bottom’s pelvic angle.

For both parties, it may be harder to achieve the pleasures you want if the top’s penis curves up or is rigid.

BUMPER CARS

This is as complicated as it looks.

If it’s not, then you shouldn’t force it. While you're just getting ploughed."

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But if it makes you feel more comfortable, then spray away! Then, once the penis is comfortably inside them, they can adjust the height of their legs up or down so that penetration is more pleasurable for their anatomy.

Since partners will be facing each other, it allows for unobstructed communication and increased intimacy.

Because the top can go deeper than they can in other positions, they may tap into different sensations–some good, some bad, so the bottom should constantly communicate and adjust as necessary.

This is more likely if you’re new to bottoming, haven’t bottomed in a while or if your partner is bigger than you’re used to. "The sooner you stop," Dr. Goldstein says, "the lower the risk of complications or injuries". It’s a signal from your body to slow down, use more lube or stop altogether. Also, it’s 2024 – nobody does binaries any more.

Just because you bottom doesn’t make you a bottom.

69

A true queer fav!

Despite 69 having a bit of an old school rep, it's definitely a position that's used a lot for same-sex partners. A lot of guys prefer oral to anal sex, and for others oral can be a real turn off - so I would encourage you to talk to your sexual partners about what you do and don't like."

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If your pain is severe or you see more than a few drops of blood then get medical help immediately. The bottom will be naturally embraced and cradled in this position–just like cuddling, but sexier.

PROS/CONS

Since partners are not facing each other, it can hinder direct communication and feedback through visual cues, so speaking up is important, if something isn’t feeling right (or if it’s feeling really good!).

Increasing and decreasing your spoon (how much you’re crouched) – will adjust the pelvis and help maximize pleasure and minimize discomfort for both parties.
This can be a difficult position depending on the length and natural curvature of the top’s penis.

One benefit of this position is that if you’re both different heights, this will be easier than standing positions because you can move around on the bed to account for discrepancies in height.

Be careful when using silicone lube because since you’re lying right up against your sheets, you have a greater chance of staining them.

THE BODYGUARD

Sometimes, you don’t want to take it (or give it) laying down (no pun intended).

A lot of people go, 'I want to spice things up.