Gay truckers

“The road can be so loud in your life, and it has a way to really sort out things. His wife figured out we were gay before he did. When I started trucking in ’86-’87, I thought I was the only one. “You probably know many. Going to trucking school together and being able to support each other on the road over the years has sparked a different kind of connection in their lives.

“We didn’t want to be apart from each other, so that’s what made trucking work for us,” he said.

For both Schmid and Coffey-Loy, truck driving runs in the family.

Gay Truck Driver is part of the dating network, which includes many other general and gay trucker dating sites. “They don’t even want to know about it,” he says. As it turned out, we became his number one produce-hauling team.”

Anderson’s academic credentials are also in order.

Copyright © 2025 Gay Truck Driver. Thus, gay truckers have evolved a specialized way of communicating, “a language within a language,” according to Anderson.

“It’s a very hidden segment of society, and it’s probably better it stays that way.”

According to Anderson, a gay trucker will use gaydar to find out if a fellow trucker is sympathetic or interested.

“There are groups out there on [social media] pages, but nobody actually took it as far as a nonprofit organization.”

Coffey-Loy drives with his partner of 17 years, Ricky, for a company called Luna Lines. Schmid, who’s been driving trucks for almost 24 years and with TDN for more than two, calls Jonestown, Pa., home –– a borough with a 2023 population of 1,645.

Together they drive about 6,000 miles a week, taking turns sleeping or keeping one another company. Schmid calls his mom and stepfather every morning and his mom again in the evenings. There was a straight man who called who had trouble balancing his home life and truck driving hours and expressed suicidal thoughts.

Truckers don’t talk too much about gay stuff – but that doesn’t stop Tim Anderson.

Now I know hundreds of drivers out there.

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Gay Truck Driver. Before driving, he said it felt like life and jobs sometimes got in the way of their relationship. Among drivers especially.”

Anderson ran with an HIV-positive co-driver and says it was difficult to connect with prescription meds as the pair travelled across the country.

But they can get downright ugly when talk turns to “queers” on the CB radio – from mindless tittering, to discomforting rhetoric, to particularly violent reactions flavoured with homoerotic subtext. You don’t call a straight macho trucker a “good buddy” unless you’re looking for a fist in the chops.

Truckers are not subtle when discussing sex.

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